Make Shyness a thing of the past.

             Shyness can be defines as an exaggerated fear of rejection or thinking of the “negative unknown” .

Here are some things that can help you get rid of it ;).

• Practice on someone who doesn’t matter. 
              Not everyone matters enough to panic or become shy. You can try flirting with friends or strangers you don’t actually like. Because shyness is situational meaning you only become shy if you have a desire to be intimate with the person. Rejection can also help you, you’re shy be cause you fear rejection and being used to that can help you talk to anyone. And as you begin to become Comfortable, you can enlarge your conversation circle to include those you find hard to talk to.
• Ask open-minded questions.
              By that I mean talk less listen more. You only need a friendly smile (smiles are very important its the cherry to every attractive person) and a handful of questions to keep a conversation going. Ask for more info! People like people that are interesting but. People love people who areinterested in them not by appearance but with whats inside or at least what he or she does. Do this and people will think you’re a fun person :)
• Have something to say.
              I am the kind of person that knows alot of useless info, but thats actually a good thing! Think about it people who know a little about everything are never at a loss for words (more and more opportunities to flirt ;D )and that keeps a conversation going but make sure you’re in a neutral and non-threatening topic. You might even draw out each other’s interest.
• To be at your best, Anticipate the worst!
              The worst case scenario that is. As I’ve said, shyness is fear of the unknown. Imagining your fears in teh most specific, detailed and unrealistic way can help you see how pathetic it is to even have feared. But limit it to thing you can cope with. 

 Personally I have tried everything that I write here but this is about confidence! You have to try it our for yourself to grow!

To be continued ;)